Nicholaa de la Haye, England’s Forgotten Heroine

Seal of Nicholaa de la Haye, Lincoln Cathedral

Nicholaa de la Haye is one of those very rare women in English history. She is renowned for her abilities, rather than her family and connections. In a time when men fought and women stayed home, Nicholaa de la Haye held Lincoln Castle against all-comers. Her strength and tenacity saved England at one of its lowest points in history.

The eldest daughter and co-heiress of Richard de la Haye and his wife, Matilda de Venon, Nicholaa was probably  born in the early 1150s. Her father, Richard de la Haye was Baron of Brattleby. His father was a Norman and his mother was a Lincolnshire heiress, the granddaughter of Colswein of Lincoln. In 1166 Richard he was recorded as owing 20 knights’ fees, which had been reduced to 16 by 1172. When he died in 1169, Nicholaa inherited her father’s land in Lincolnshire and his position as castellan of Lincoln Castle, a position she would hold for over 40 years.

Nicholaa was married twice, her first husband, William Fitz Erneis, died in 1178, leaving Nicholaa a young widow with one daughter, Matilda. Before 1185 she married Gerard de Camville, brother of Richard de Camville, admiral of Richard I’s crusading fleet during the Third Crusade. Nicholaa and Gerard had at least 2 children together; Richard and Thomas. Richard was heir to both Nicholaa and Gerard. Nothing is known of Thomas beyond his name.

Nicholaa’s husbands each claimed the position of castellan of Lincoln Castle by right of his wife; but Nicholaa seems to have been far from the normal subservient wife. When her husband was not in the castle, she was left in charge rather than an alternative, male deputy.

Lincoln castle walls

Nicholaa first comes to the attention of the chroniclers in 1191, when Prince John led the opposition to his brother’s chancellor, William Longchamp. Longchamp demanded that Gerard de Camville relinquish Lincoln Castle to one of his own supporters. Gerard refused, and swore fealty to John, joining him at Nottingham Castle. Leaving Nicholaa to hold Lincoln. Richard I’s Chancellor, William Longchamp, headed north and laid siege to Lincoln Castle.

The formidable Nicholaa refused to yield, holding out for 40 days before Longchamp raised the siege, following the fall of the castles at Tickhill and Nottingham to John. Amusingly, Richard of Devizes said of this defence of Lincoln Castle, that she did it ‘without thinking of anything womanly’.

In 1194, on the king’s return, Camville was stripped of his positions as Sheriff of Lincolnshire and Castellan of the castle; only having it returned to him on the accession of King John in 1199.

As we all know, King John’s reign wasn’t exactly smooth sailing. He lost his French lands and was held to account by the barons of England for  numerous examples of maladministration, corruption and  outright murder. In 1215 he had been forced to seal the Great Charter, or Magna Carta, in order to avoid war. Although it eventually came to be considered a fundamental statement of English liberties, as a peace treaty Magna Carta failed miserably. Within months John had written to Pope Innocent III and the charter had been declared null and void; the barons were up in arms.

Gerard de Camville died around 1215 and, although now a widow, it seems the castle remained in Nicholaa’s hands. On one of King John’s visits to inspect the castle’s defences in 1216, there was a rather dramatic display of fealty from Nicholaa :

Nicholaa de la Haye, Lincoln Castle

And once it happened that after the war King John came to Lincoln and the said Lady Nicholaa went out of the eastern gate of the castle carrying the keys of the castle in her hand and met the king and offered the keys to him as her lord and said she was a woman of great age and was unable to bear such fatigue any longer and he besought her saying, “My beloved Nicholaa, I will that you keep the castle as hitherto until I shall order otherwise”.¹

Whether Nicholaa ever intended to give up Lincoln, or the event was staged so that John could demonstrate his continued trust in Nicholaa, is open to debate. I suspect it was the latter. John in the midst of civil war and running short of allies. Nicholaa had already demonstrated her abilities at defending Lincoln, and her loyalty to John – he would have been hard put to replace her. However, the event gave John the opportunity to reinforce his trust in Nicholaa in front of his barons.

The rebels invited the king of France to take the throne of England; instead Philip II’s son, Louis (the future Louis VIII), accepted the offer and was hailed as King of England in London in June 1216. In the same year Nicholaa prevented another siege by paying off a rebel army, led by Gilbert de Gant, who remained in occupation of the city of Lincoln but lifted the siege of the castle. After Nicholaa paid off the 1216 besiegers, John came north and he chased the rebels into the Isle of Axholme ‘with fire and sword’.

As Louis consolidated his position in the south, John then made an inspection of Lincoln castle in September. Moving south, just 2 weeks later, the king’s baggage train was lost as he crossed the Wash estuary and within a few more days John was desperately ill, probably from dysentery. He moved on to the castle at Newark, from where, just hours before his death, John appointed Nicholaa de la Haye as Sheriff of Lincolnshire in her own right:

The East Gate of Lincoln Castle

‘The King to the archbishops, bishops, earls, barons, knights, freeholders and others of the county of Lincoln etc.. Know that we have granted to our trusty and well-beloved, the lady Nicholaa de Haye and Philip Marc, the county of Lincoln with all its appurtenances, to be in their custody for so long as it may please us. We therefore command that you do heed and obey the said Nicholaa and Philip in all things as the bailiffs of the said county. And in testimony etc.. Witness myself, at Newark, the eighteenth day of October, in the eighteenth year of our reign.’

From King John’s Letters and Papers, translated by Rich Price

King John died at Newark on the night of 18/19th October 1216, with half his country occupied by a foreign invader and his throne now occupied by his 9-year-old son, Henry III. The elder statesman and notable soldier William Marshal, Earl of Pembroke was appointed Regent and set out to save the kingdom.

Meanwhile, Gilbert de Gant renewed the siege of Lincoln Castle, receiving reinforcements from Louis’ forces, under the Comte de Perche, in early 1217. Now in her 60s Nicholaa de la Haye took charge of the defences.

The Battle of Lincoln, 1217

When the small force proved insufficient to force a surrender, the French had to send for reinforcements and siege engines. For almost 7 months, Nicholaa was besieged, with the circle tightening from March to mid-May as siege machinery bombarded the south and east walls of the castle. On the 20th May William Marshal arrived, from the north-west, with a relieving force. Attacking from the north of Lincoln, his army proceeded to attack the besieging forces and, after about 6 hours of fighting, routed the enemy; the French commander, the Comte de Perche, was killed in the fighting, and the rebel leaders captured.

The city, which had supported the rebels and welcomed the French, was sacked and looted by the victorious army; the battle becoming known as the Lincoln Fair, as a result. The Battle of Lincoln turned the tide of the war. After a further defeat in the naval Battle of Sandwich in the summer, the French were forced to seek peace and returned home. Magna Carta was reissued and Henry III’s regents could set about healing the country.

In a magnificent demonstration of ingratitude, within 4 days of the relief of the Castle, Nicholaa’s position of Sheriff of Lincolnshire was given to the king’s uncle William Longspée, Earl of Salisbury, who took control of the city and seized the castle.

Not one to give up easily Nicholaa travelled to court to remind the king’s regents of her services, and request her rights be restored to her. A compromise was reached whereby Salisbury remained as Sheriff of the County, while Nicholaa held the city and the castle. The settlement was not ideal, however, and some wrangling seems to have continued until Salisbury’s death in 1226.

Magna Carta

Nicholaa’s granddaughter and heiress, Idonea – the daughter of Nicholaa’s eldest son Richard – was married to Salisbury’s son, William II Longspée; the couple inherited the de la Haye and Camville lands on Nicholaa’s death.

On the death of her second husband, Gerard de Camville, Nicholaa had declared herself femme sole, meaning she would be able to control her own lands. A staunchly independent woman, Nicholaa issued some 25 surviving charters in her name. She made grants to various religious houses, including Lincoln Cathedral, and even secured a royal grant for a weekly market on one of her properties.

A most able adversary for some of the greatest military minds of the time, and a loyal supporter of King John, Nicholaa de la Haye was unique among her peers. Although praised by the chroniclers, they seemed to find difficulty in describing a woman who acted in such a fashion;  the Dunstable annals refer to her as a ‘noble woman’, saying she acted ‘manfully’. One cannot fail to feel admiration for a woman who managed to hold her own in a man’s world, who fought for her castle and her home in a time when women had so little say over their own lives – and at such an advanced age. Her bravery and tenacity saved Henry III’s throne.

Land grant with Nicholaa de la Haye’s seal attached

Not surprisingly, both King John and Henry III referred to her as ‘our beloved and faithful Nicholaa de la Haye’.

Nicholaa de la Haye, the woman who saved England, lived well into her 70s. By late 1226 she had retired to her manor at Swaton, dying there on 20 November, 1230. She was buried in St Michael’s Church, Swaton in Lincolnshire.


Footnote: ¹Irene Gladwin: The Sheriff; The Man and His Office


Nicholaa’s story was the inspiration behind my third book, Ladies of Magna Carta: Women of Influence in Thirteenth Century England. I am currently working on a full-length biography of Nicholaa, King John’s Right-Hand Lady: the Story of Nicholaa de la Haye, which will be published in May, 2023.


Image credits:

Photos of Lincoln Castle and Nicholaa’s seal, © Sharon Bennett Connolly 2015. Picture of the Battle of Lincoln and Magna Carta are courtesy of Wikipedia. Image of the land grant from the National Archives.



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In a time when men fought and women stayed home, Nicholaa de la Haye held Lincoln Castle against all-comers. Not once, but three times, earning herself the ironic praise that she acted ‘manfully.’ Nicholaa gained prominence in the First Baron’s War, the civil war that followed the sealing of Magna Carta in 1215.

A truly remarkable lady, Nicholaa was the first woman to be appointed sheriff in her own right. Her strength and tenacity saved England at one of the lowest points in its history. Nicholaa de la Haye is one woman in English history whose story needs to be told…

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42 thoughts on “Nicholaa de la Haye, England’s Forgotten Heroine

  1. Gloria Horner 13/06/2015 / 17:24

    See the quote;
    Nichola de la Haye, the woman who saved England, lived well into her 70s, dying in 1130. She was buried in Swaton in Lincolnshire.
    Should the date be 1230? Her birth in the 1150’s and living till her 70’s seems it should be 1230.


  2. wordfoolery 21/11/2018 / 09:26

    Have to admit I’d never heard of her, but I have now. Great piece, thank you.


  3. Mary J. Cockerham 29/11/2020 / 17:26

    Was Nicholaa’s mother the one who King John had starved to death ? Was her father the one who killed off the Welsh nobility at a feast in, I think, Abergaveny – ?


  4. Nicola Harrod 06/01/2021 / 09:24

    My name is Nicola. I wasn’t intentionally named after her. My mother only just came across her today, so I looked her up. I definitely have to visit the castle, her grave etc when I go back to the UK.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Sharon Bennett Connolly 06/01/2021 / 09:28

      Well, you have a proud name to live up to, Nicola. She was an incredible lady and is a wonderful inspiration. I love writing her story and can’t wait to get started on writing her full biography later this year. Best wishes, Sharon 😃


  5. Alan Peters 21/11/2022 / 03:27

    It was common practise for the wife’s of their departed husband’s on campaign to defend their castles which were primarily fortified homes


    • Sharon Bennett Connolly 21/11/2022 / 05:54

      Yes, indeed, which is what happened on 1191 – and such women were only expected to hold a castle until relief arrived. And these were usually sieges of short duration – such as Matilda de Braose’s siege at Painscastle, which she held for 3 weeks until a relieving army arrived – not sieges that lasted 7 months as in 1216-1217. Moreover, Gerard was dead and in such situations, the strongholds would pass to the son and heir. Or, as it was a royal castle, to any loyal baron or knight the King deemed fit. But not in this case. Nicholaa held onto Lincoln despite having a son old enough to take on the responsibility – and it wasn’t that he’d left on campaign – the campaign was AT Lincoln! And when she was sent a knight to aid in the castle’s defence – Sir Geoffrey de Serland – he was put under Nicholaa’s command rather than being sent to relieve her.


  6. Gail Fletcher 22/11/2022 / 02:27

    I love history, especially royal history & how the past affected who & what we are today. This writing & information is just so wonderful, so very well done. Thank you so much for sharing this history, my history & yours! So well done that I felt like I was watching the events take place in my mind & conjured up what I feel this great woman would look like & act like. Thank you! Gail Fletcher

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  7. Mary Ames Mitchell 14/03/2023 / 21:07

    Hi. This was a great story. I found out recently that I descend from Nicholaa. I’m putting together a family tree. May I use the image you have of what looks like a fountain or pillar? If that’s OK, how should I credit it? Thanks. Mary Ames Mitchell


    • Sharon Bennett Connolly 14/03/2023 / 21:18

      Hi Mary, it’s a tree stump! And yes, you mayy use it, just credit me as Sharon Bennett Connolly. Thank you. Nicholaa was amazing – you have an awesome ancestor!

      Liked by 1 person

      • Mary Ames Mitchell 15/03/2023 / 14:08

        Thanks, Sharon, for responding so promptly, and for letting me use your tree stump photo. When was it carved? Do you know? And who are the others on the stump? Mary


      • Sharon Bennett Connolly 15/03/2023 / 14:12

        I don’t know who the others are, I’m afraid – I was only interested in Nicholaa at the time. There’s another woman, who I think is Countess Lucy of Bolingbroke. And I think one of the 2 men is either King John or William Marshal – I will check with the guides the next time I pop into the castle.


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